Heads up peeps, this ain't pretty......

And yes Deb, it's time for an update.

French accent my foot!!!!! Bwahahahahaha! Honey, you talk like the peeps I know, and I luv ya for it.

BWAHAHAHAHA !!!!

Ya'll were warned well in advance !!!!

Hummah said we talked alot alike. I musta been drunk!!!!!!!

My accent comes out then. HAHAHAHAHA!

BWAHAHAHA !!!

I got no excuse. Damb.

Damb! HAHAHAHA!

Debu wrote:

dayum! Mable, you are a beeeeyotch! And I mean that in the most loving way! I can't wait to meet you in person, and I know I will someday!

Can I be you when I grow up? Please????

And Em, nope I didn't call you.

How sweet of all of you to say you want to be like me..I never in my wildest dreams would have thought anyone would want to be me.
I think all of you are already like me more than you know. That's why I said you all remind me of my daughter. So many people call her "little Mable" ...because she is so much like me. I love you all and you're all a great inspiration to me.

Back atcha!

It weren't me that called Em. I'm overdue. I want to figure out if I can block ALL calls except the numbers I chose. Getting pretty damned tired of this "I want my money" shit. Damn, I'm doing the best I can! (doctor bills, ya know?)

Speaking of calls...Ben called this morn and I was still lazing in bed, didn't hear the phone. So when I get up, I called him. We talked for 5 mins or so and I hear in the background from Robyn..."you talk to her more than you talk to me and we live in the same house!" Shit! I could hear the girls in the background and he said he was dealing with them, told him I'd let him go to it and for him to call me later....I'll bet he doesn't call back today! Damn her, what is WRONG with dil's? She needs to get over her jealousy, can't have it both ways. When his dad died she got in a dig about how he needed his Mom and I wasn't there for him...his choice! and now I'm there too much.
Whatever!

Before we started playing those myspace games Robyn posted pics of the girls almost daily so I could see them, now she hasn't posted one in weeks....I told her no one can see those pics because I haven't copied them or put them on MY PAGE...she set her pics to private too. She doesn't answer my posts. What a friggin' bitch! And Ben suffers for it.

OK, I feel better...sorta.

There's a reason he talks to you and doesn't talk to her. Geeezz.

Some of these young women just think the world should revolve around them - when they want it to.

Personally I think we should take our dils and throw them all in a deep hole somewhere. This queen Todd is married to monitors his computer time. She said she "caught" him going to porn sites...so what if she did. but anyway she called me squalling saying I needed to talk to him and tell him how wrong it is. I said not me ...that's your problem if it is one. Anyway everytime he does anything on a computer here she finds some reason to set her butt down to see where he's been on it. Gripes my butt. Well they moved their computer into the living room and they share one email address so she can monitor his emails and everything else. Russell sent him an email the other day and Todd wrote him back saying "FYI Joshua was sitting in my lap when I opened this emai.. Please don't sent inappropriate emails like this to me" So Russell wrote him back saying fine ...I won't send you anything else . You're no longer on my address book. I wasn't aware you would be so offended ...where's the privacy there . Don't you have any?
Well he got back one saying he wasn't offended he'd seen boobs before then he proceeds to "dress down" Russell. Makes me so mad I could just slap the shit out of both of them. I know damn well she was standing there telling him what to write or maybe she wrote it. He told Russell he had no business getting his feelings hurt over him "asking" him to refrain from sending that kind of emails to his computer. Russell said he wasn't going to respond to that last email and he'd just wait and see how long it is before they need something ...It has gotten to where that's the only time we ever hear from them. We had to call and go see the baby last week but they take him to her families house all the time.
Like I said where did our sons find these losers?

OH MY.

The story of my life.

If only they would let ME pick them out !!!!

I know I could do better.

Shelia wrote:

OH MY.

The story of my life.

If only they would let ME pick them out !!!!

I know I could do better.

You and me both ...my oldest son tried to say he picked his out because she was so much like me....I said that was a slap in the face. Neither of them are a thing like me...they're both poor helpless bitches.

If either of mine told me their wives were like me I'd slap them.

My oldest seems happy now.

His ex was a hateful bitch. Still is. I knew the second I met her she was not for him. He's silly, funny, she had NO sense of humor.

Jonathan is unlucky that's for sure. He got involved with 2 that thought the world owed them. He's learning the hard way that's for sure. I only hope his next one, if there is a next one, is the total opposite. It's the only way love will work for him.

That boy attracts some really pretty girls but LAWD none are marriage material.

How sweet of all of you to say you want to be like me>>Mable


it is true, Mable, you are one rockin' lady!



ok catching up here....Em it wasnt me that called either! But I will one day!

I saw somewhere that Rachelle said he coded twice and now he is "fine". I am not believing something here.
I think she is doing a really good job of portraying herself as the loving, devoted, supportive wife and we all know better now! Who is she trying to convince, us? or herself?

I am so glad I dont have a DIL. YET. I am learning here watch to watch for and how to deal with it!!

On the DIL front, I always have hope.

About Rachelle, yes, I do believe you are right. I also believe she did a lot of the same things she's doing now with her ex husband. She was a victim/good wife there too. I never put that together until recently.

Did she update today ??

Shelia wrote:

On the DIL front, I always have hope.

About Rachelle, yes, I do believe you are right. I also believe she did a lot of the same things she's doing now with her ex husband. She was a victim/good wife there too. I never put that together until recently.

Did she update today ??

I checked in there just before coming here and so far nothing...Rosie had posted earlier ...

Uh, Mable? Is Russell sending booby pics to your son?

Debu wrote:

Uh, Mable? Is Russell sending booby pics to your son?

Yeah but he sent it to me too...No they weren't of my boobies either. I'll have to find it and send it to you..it was a funny thing but they were highly offended.

I got it. I thought it was funny!

Todd im'd me this morning wanting to know if his daddy was still pissed at him. I said "why don't you ask him" . I told him that he had every right to be . He wanted to know why I thought that. I said you're 41 and you're "dressing down " a 72 yr old man ...I told him he was doing the exact thing he fumed about his brother doing 20 yrs ago. He didn't see it but I then told him to wait until Joshua got old enough to talk back to him the way he did his daddy and he'd understand. I told him if he wanted to talk to his dad to call him I wasn't going to be his go between nor was I going to talk to him any longer about it because it got me too upset and I said bye and closed my im...He did call and apologized to Russell. Russell said he wasn't going to hold a grudge and for Todd to forget it. But Russell has always been that way...I on the other hand haven't. Russell will hardly say anything to hurt any of the kids feelings but he'll let them hurt his. Not Mama ...oh well hopefully that episode of DIL is over for a while. She'll most likely try to talk to me about it and I'll tell her again what I think.
Thanks for listening everybody. Russell wont discuss it anymore and I needed to vent. ha ha...
Hummer did Ben ever call you back. I guess reading about your DIL and knowing about mine just set me off yesterday .

He didn't call me, I waited till 8 or so and called HIM. They were grocery shopping and I talked to her too. Neither of them mentioned it, I wouldn't.

He called this morning so all is well. Robyn is a bit childish but I think she knows from past experience that I WANT Ben to be happy and I wouldn't do anything to get between them. That's HER problem, not mine.

His dad and grandmother did everything they could to cause trouble for them....but I'm not them and it's time to get over it!

I HATED when one of them would call out of the blue and involve me in their arguments.

You're in a no win situation no matter what you say.

I don't miss that one bit.

Shelia wrote:

I HATED when one of them would call out of the blue and involve me in their arguments.

You're in a no win situation no matter what you say.

I don't miss that one bit.

That's exactly why I told Todd to call his Daddy and talk to him. That I wasn't going to be their go between on im. Russell doesn't type fast enough to talk on it so he won't but wants to tell me what to type for him. NOPE...not gonna do it.

I'm not a go between for my kids and their father either.

You want to talk to Dad ??? Talk to him yourself. I've been blamed for too many things before and it ain't happening.

I like the honesty rule we have here. It keeps things open and much more pleasant.

You may not like what you hear but my nerves sho appreciate it.